is it wrong to be paranoid and pessimistic people?
what does pessimtic and paranoid do to our lives?
Five answers:
sunny_sylvia
2006-04-08 06:23:35 UTC
Paranoid definition: Exhibiting or characterized by extreme and irrational fear or distrust of others
Pessimistic definition: A tendency to stress the negative or unfavorable or to take the gloomiest possible view
It is not wrong to have such characcteristics, its just that it is negative and not healthy to have them, and they affect your life. A paranoid person would over-react to things that s/he is afraid of or have negative thoughts of. Say for example, a paranoid old lady hears a knock on the door, she thinks its a man trying to harm her that she carries a knife when opening the door, when actually, the man is a delivery boy.
Being pessimistic on the other hand, also affects a person's life. If that person keeps on thinking negatively, he will not be able to go forward or succeed in life. For example, a group of student participates in a competition against an opponent group which has a higher opportunity to win them; if the group of students feel intimidated by their better opponent and they think negatively, they will lose their fighting spirit and have no motivation to do their best to win the opponent.
Fred K
2006-04-08 06:16:29 UTC
It is neither wrong nor right to be paranoid or pessimistic. It depends on how much one is.
Paranoia could be considered a survival trait: the less you trust your environment, the more vigil you'll be against danger. Of course, if you are 'too' paranoid, you may actually make a non-hostile environment more dangerous.
Pessimism is really a way of approaching life by assuming the worst. In this way you can't get hurt by bad things, since you expected them anyway. Optimists may get hurt when things don't go their way: pessimists won't. But, the question becomes, who is happier in the long run?
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2016-11-12 13:35:49 UTC
i have had this journey as well. I submit with it for a lengthy time period hoping this man or woman ought to change. It did not ensue and as this develop into having a detrimental result on me I closed the door on that fellowship. do not difficulty those human beings will consistently discover others to help them after which settle for his or her ingratitude and hurtful behaviour. on occasion adequate is adequate.
thylawyer
2006-04-08 06:11:26 UTC
We all need some degree of paranoia and pessimism in our lives, or we would fall for every crackpot idea or scam that came our way. It is only when they are in excess or beyond what is reasonable thay they are called mental illness, though not contagious.
2006-04-08 06:10:47 UTC
one is a pair of noids [2 noids ] and the other is a imistic that bothers you PEST imistic
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